
I have decided to take a break from Facebook. It was wasting far too much of my time and I also felt like I was becoming narcissistic. Having studied psychology and reading many "self-help" books, I tend to analyze and maybe, more accurately, over-analyze myself. (Other problems cropped up, too, that I won't get into here.)
John advised me to keep my Facebook account but just not go on there very much. Hello? I do not have the self-discipline for that, and I openly admit it. I have been going on John's account so that I could still play Word Challenge. But as for getting on and reading my friends' posts, making my own, and commenting..those days are gone, for now.
Please do not think that I consider YOU narcissistic if you use Facebook. I don't. The analyzing extends to myself only. I would find myself posting something (often trying to be funny or clever) and then going back frequently throughout my day to see what my friends would comment. Uggg!!! AND, I would also read some of my friends' posts and, if I disagreed or found the post controversial, would be annoyed. Sometimes I would even post a comment and, more often than not, would get myself into some trouble.
Ho hum. Ultimately, I decided to disable my account. It was hard at first, but I'm really glad I did. I don't get on the computer everyday like I did and I am much more productive with my time. But, if you would still like to send me a message, I am on my husband's account. He changed his name to "John Cynthia Watkins."
So, Goodbye Facebook. Maybe we can be friends again someday...